Conflict,
Resolved Like a System.
The complete CONFL suite gives coaches, trainers and facilitators fifty professional, workplace-ready assessments — rating scales, puzzle games, judgment tests, journals and 360° feedback — in three formats each, with scoring that does itself.
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Every method runs through the same ten development stages — from Foundations & Self-Awareness to Mastery & Long-Term Growth. Explore what each one measures.
Self-Report Rating Scales
The measurement backbone
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Assessment disguised as play
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The bridge between knowing and doing
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Where rating scales cannot reach
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The gaps ARE the findings
HoverTap to explore topics ↗The Conflict Baseline — Fifty statements that reveal your real conflict record - what you do in the first ninety seconds of disagreement, and what it costs. The honest starting line.
Beliefs About Disagreement — The assumptions that drive the behaviour: measure how your beliefs about conflict - threat, disrespect, opportunity - translate into, or block, everyday resolution.
The De-Escalation Toolkit — The practical instruments: lowering temperature, reframing positions into interests and choosing words that drain heat instead of adding it.
Preparing Hard Conversations — Resolution that does not rely on improvisation: preparing openings, fallbacks and composure before the conversation that matters begins.
Everyday Friction Habits — The small daily behaviours - early clarifications, quick acknowledgements, friction caught cheap - that stop small scrapes becoming formal disputes.
High Heat Moments — How you behave when it costs something: personal jabs, stonewalling and high-stakes rooms where escalation is the easy option.
Mediating Colleague Disputes — From party to broker: stepping between colleagues, running the difficult meeting and rebuilding working trust after a blow-up.
Building Disagreement Systems — From personal skill to team design: disagreement protocols, escalation ladders and review rituals that make resolution run by system.
Measuring Resolution Durability — Auditing the record: how fast disputes settle, whether they stay settled and what the pattern says about your mediation habits over time.
Towards Conflict Mastery — Transfer the culture: coach other mediators, model hard conversations publicly and set standards that outlast your own involvement.
The Mediator's Mirror — See yourself as the counterpart sees you: five rounds inside a UN-style mediation facility matching your claimed conflict style to observable behaviour - mirrors do not flatter.
The Crisis Line — Take the call: five rounds of escalating scenarios where the first sentence you choose decides whether the crisis climbs or cools.
The Custody Table — Negotiate the split: a high-stakes table where both sides are right - route the interests, trade the concessions and land an agreement that holds.
The Ambassador's Brief — Prepare the mission: five rounds of pre-negotiation craft - mapping parties, drafting openings and rehearsing the sentence that keeps the room at the table.
The Thursday Sessions — Ride the routine: the same team, the same friction, every Thursday - spot the small weekly moments where drift becomes dispute, and catch it earlier.
The Hot Pitch — Present under fire: five rounds of interruptions, challenges and open hostility - hold your message without turning the room into a battlefield.
The Council Fire — Mediate the tribe: a council divided into camps - broker between factions, surface the shared interest and rebuild one working agreement.
Checkpoint Nine — Run the checkpoint: five rounds of screening disputes before they cross the border - design the filters, the escalations and the records that keep peace durable.
The Tribunal Ledger — Weigh the evidence: five rounds reviewing how real disputes were resolved - credit what settled, flag what merely paused, and audit the pattern.
The Big Table — Chair the summit: the final game brings every skill to one table - open, de-escalate, broker, agree and close a multi-party conflict in five rounds.
Foundations & Self-Awareness — Judge the MOST and LEAST effective response. Seeing your conflict record honestly: what you actually do when disagreement appears - push back, withdraw, rush to fix or smooth over - and where that default comes from.
Mindset & Attitudes — Judge the MOST and LEAST effective response. The beliefs behind the behaviour: examining what you assume disagreement means - threat, disrespect, opportunity - and how those assumptions decide your first move.
Core Skills & Techniques — Judge the MOST and LEAST effective response. The working moves of resolution: de-escalating in the moment, reframing positions into interests and landing hard messages without collateral damage.
Planning & Preparation — Judge the MOST and LEAST effective response. Before the hard conversation: preparing your opening line, your fallback, your exit and your composure so the talk does not depend on improvisation.
Everyday Application — Judge the MOST and LEAST effective response. Resolution in the ordinary: the small daily habits - early clarifications, quick acknowledgements, friction caught while it is still cheap - that stop drift becoming dispute.
Handling Challenges & Pressure — Judge the MOST and LEAST effective response. Holding your footing when it counts: high-heat moments, personal jabs and stonewalling counterparts - staying in the conversation without losing it.
Working with Others — Judge the MOST and LEAST effective response. Mediating between people: brokering colleague disputes, running the difficult meeting and rebuilding working trust after a blow-up.
Tools, Systems & Continuous Improvement — Judge the MOST and LEAST effective response. Beyond good intentions: disagreement protocols, escalation ladders and review rituals that make conflict resolution run by design, not by heroics.
Measuring Results & Consistency — Judge the MOST and LEAST effective response. Evidence over intentions: tracking how disputes start, stall and settle, auditing your patterns and re-measuring to prove resolution is getting faster and cleaner.
Mastery & Long-Term Growth — Judge the MOST and LEAST effective response. Resolution that outlasts you: coaching other mediators, modelling hard conversations publicly and setting a conflict culture the team keeps without you.
Foundations & Self-Awareness — Log it for seven days, then reflect in writing. Seeing your conflict record honestly: what you actually do when disagreement appears - push back, withdraw, rush to fix or smooth over - and where that default comes from.
Mindset & Attitudes — Log it for seven days, then reflect in writing. The beliefs behind the behaviour: examining what you assume disagreement means - threat, disrespect, opportunity - and how those assumptions decide your first move.
Core Skills & Techniques — Log it for seven days, then reflect in writing. The working moves of resolution: de-escalating in the moment, reframing positions into interests and landing hard messages without collateral damage.
Planning & Preparation — Log it for seven days, then reflect in writing. Before the hard conversation: preparing your opening line, your fallback, your exit and your composure so the talk does not depend on improvisation.
Everyday Application — Log it for seven days, then reflect in writing. Resolution in the ordinary: the small daily habits - early clarifications, quick acknowledgements, friction caught while it is still cheap - that stop drift becoming dispute.
Handling Challenges & Pressure — Log it for seven days, then reflect in writing. Holding your footing when it counts: high-heat moments, personal jabs and stonewalling counterparts - staying in the conversation without losing it.
Working with Others — Log it for seven days, then reflect in writing. Mediating between people: brokering colleague disputes, running the difficult meeting and rebuilding working trust after a blow-up.
Tools, Systems & Continuous Improvement — Log it for seven days, then reflect in writing. Beyond good intentions: disagreement protocols, escalation ladders and review rituals that make conflict resolution run by design, not by heroics.
Measuring Results & Consistency — Log it for seven days, then reflect in writing. Evidence over intentions: tracking how disputes start, stall and settle, auditing your patterns and re-measuring to prove resolution is getting faster and cleaner.
Mastery & Long-Term Growth — Log it for seven days, then reflect in writing. Resolution that outlasts you: coaching other mediators, modelling hard conversations publicly and setting a conflict culture the team keeps without you.
Foundations & Self-Awareness — Rated by you and your raters - the gaps are the findings. Seeing your conflict record honestly: what you actually do when disagreement appears - push back, withdraw, rush to fix or smooth over - and where that default comes from.
Mindset & Attitudes — Rated by you and your raters - the gaps are the findings. The beliefs behind the behaviour: examining what you assume disagreement means - threat, disrespect, opportunity - and how those assumptions decide your first move.
Core Skills & Techniques — Rated by you and your raters - the gaps are the findings. The working moves of resolution: de-escalating in the moment, reframing positions into interests and landing hard messages without collateral damage.
Planning & Preparation — Rated by you and your raters - the gaps are the findings. Before the hard conversation: preparing your opening line, your fallback, your exit and your composure so the talk does not depend on improvisation.
Everyday Application — Rated by you and your raters - the gaps are the findings. Resolution in the ordinary: the small daily habits - early clarifications, quick acknowledgements, friction caught while it is still cheap - that stop drift becoming dispute.
Handling Challenges & Pressure — Rated by you and your raters - the gaps are the findings. Holding your footing when it counts: high-heat moments, personal jabs and stonewalling counterparts - staying in the conversation without losing it.
Working with Others — Rated by you and your raters - the gaps are the findings. Mediating between people: brokering colleague disputes, running the difficult meeting and rebuilding working trust after a blow-up.
Tools, Systems & Continuous Improvement — Rated by you and your raters - the gaps are the findings. Beyond good intentions: disagreement protocols, escalation ladders and review rituals that make conflict resolution run by design, not by heroics.
Measuring Results & Consistency — Rated by you and your raters - the gaps are the findings. Evidence over intentions: tracking how disputes start, stall and settle, auditing your patterns and re-measuring to prove resolution is getting faster and cleaner.
Mastery & Long-Term Growth — Rated by you and your raters - the gaps are the findings. Resolution that outlasts you: coaching other mediators, modelling hard conversations publicly and setting a conflict culture the team keeps without you.
Self-Report Rating Scales
Fifty behaviourally-anchored statements per assessment across five conflict competencies - default under disagreement, trigger awareness, body and mood signals, pattern honesty and baseline verification - each rated on a five-point scale with interpretation guide.
style codes A01–A10
The Conflict Baseline
Foundations & Self-Awareness
Concepts covered: Fifty statements that reveal your real conflict record - what you do in the first ninety seconds of disagreement, and what it costs. The honest starting line.
Beliefs About Disagreement
Mindset & Attitudes
Concepts covered: The assumptions that drive the behaviour: measure how your beliefs about conflict - threat, disrespect, opportunity - translate into, or block, everyday resolution.
The De-Escalation Toolkit
Core Skills & Techniques
Concepts covered: The practical instruments: lowering temperature, reframing positions into interests and choosing words that drain heat instead of adding it.
Preparing Hard Conversations
Planning & Preparation
Concepts covered: Resolution that does not rely on improvisation: preparing openings, fallbacks and composure before the conversation that matters begins.
Everyday Friction Habits
Everyday Application
Concepts covered: The small daily behaviours - early clarifications, quick acknowledgements, friction caught cheap - that stop small scrapes becoming formal disputes.
High Heat Moments
Handling Challenges & Pressure
Concepts covered: How you behave when it costs something: personal jabs, stonewalling and high-stakes rooms where escalation is the easy option.
Mediating Colleague Disputes
Working with Others
Concepts covered: From party to broker: stepping between colleagues, running the difficult meeting and rebuilding working trust after a blow-up.
Building Disagreement Systems
Tools, Systems & Continuous Improvement
Concepts covered: From personal skill to team design: disagreement protocols, escalation ladders and review rituals that make resolution run by system.
Measuring Resolution Durability
Measuring Results & Consistency
Concepts covered: Auditing the record: how fast disputes settle, whether they stay settled and what the pattern says about your mediation habits over time.
Towards Conflict Mastery
Mastery & Long-Term Growth
Concepts covered: Transfer the culture: coach other mediators, model hard conversations publicly and set standards that outlast your own involvement.
Puzzle Games & Interactive Challenges
Each game runs five puzzle rounds - scrambles, matches, mazes, simulators and design challenges - built around a conflict-resolution theme, with points, an answer key and a debrief that converts play into insight.
style codes G01–G10
The Mediator's Mirror
The Mediator's Mirror
Concepts covered: See yourself as the counterpart sees you: five rounds inside a UN-style mediation facility matching your claimed conflict style to observable behaviour - mirrors do not flatter.
The Crisis Line
The Crisis Line
Concepts covered: Take the call: five rounds of escalating scenarios where the first sentence you choose decides whether the crisis climbs or cools.
The Custody Table
The Custody Table
Concepts covered: Negotiate the split: a high-stakes table where both sides are right - route the interests, trade the concessions and land an agreement that holds.
The Ambassador's Brief
The Ambassador's Brief
Concepts covered: Prepare the mission: five rounds of pre-negotiation craft - mapping parties, drafting openings and rehearsing the sentence that keeps the room at the table.
The Thursday Sessions
The Thursday Sessions
Concepts covered: Ride the routine: the same team, the same friction, every Thursday - spot the small weekly moments where drift becomes dispute, and catch it earlier.
The Hot Pitch
The Hot Pitch
Concepts covered: Present under fire: five rounds of interruptions, challenges and open hostility - hold your message without turning the room into a battlefield.
The Council Fire
The Council Fire
Concepts covered: Mediate the tribe: a council divided into camps - broker between factions, surface the shared interest and rebuild one working agreement.
Checkpoint Nine
Checkpoint Nine
Concepts covered: Run the checkpoint: five rounds of screening disputes before they cross the border - design the filters, the escalations and the records that keep peace durable.
The Tribunal Ledger
The Tribunal Ledger
Concepts covered: Weigh the evidence: five rounds reviewing how real disputes were resolved - credit what settled, flag what merely paused, and audit the pattern.
The Big Table
The Big Table
Concepts covered: Chair the summit: the final game brings every skill to one table - open, de-escalate, broker, agree and close a multi-party conflict in five rounds.
Situational Judgment Tests
Eight realistic workplace conflict scenarios per test, each with four candidate responses. You judge: which option is MOST effective, which is LEAST - then the answer key and rationale score your conflict judgment.
style codes S01–S10
Foundations & Self-Awareness
Foundations & Self-Awareness
Concepts covered: Eight realistic scenarios, four responses each: you judge which is MOST and which is LEAST effective. The focus: Seeing your conflict record honestly: what you actually do when disagreement appears - push back, withdraw, rush to fix or smooth over - and where that default comes from.
Mindset & Attitudes
Mindset & Attitudes
Concepts covered: Eight realistic scenarios, four responses each: you judge which is MOST and which is LEAST effective. The focus: The beliefs behind the behaviour: examining what you assume disagreement means - threat, disrespect, opportunity - and how those assumptions decide your first move.
Core Skills & Techniques
Core Skills & Techniques
Concepts covered: Eight realistic scenarios, four responses each: you judge which is MOST and which is LEAST effective. The focus: The working moves of resolution: de-escalating in the moment, reframing positions into interests and landing hard messages without collateral damage.
Planning & Preparation
Planning & Preparation
Concepts covered: Eight realistic scenarios, four responses each: you judge which is MOST and which is LEAST effective. The focus: Before the hard conversation: preparing your opening line, your fallback, your exit and your composure so the talk does not depend on improvisation.
Everyday Application
Everyday Application
Concepts covered: Eight realistic scenarios, four responses each: you judge which is MOST and which is LEAST effective. The focus: Resolution in the ordinary: the small daily habits - early clarifications, quick acknowledgements, friction caught while it is still cheap - that stop drift becoming dispute.
Handling Challenges & Pressure
Handling Challenges & Pressure
Concepts covered: Eight realistic scenarios, four responses each: you judge which is MOST and which is LEAST effective. The focus: Holding your footing when it counts: high-heat moments, personal jabs and stonewalling counterparts - staying in the conversation without losing it.
Working with Others
Working with Others
Concepts covered: Eight realistic scenarios, four responses each: you judge which is MOST and which is LEAST effective. The focus: Mediating between people: brokering colleague disputes, running the difficult meeting and rebuilding working trust after a blow-up.
Tools, Systems & Continuous Improvement
Tools, Systems & Continuous Improvement
Concepts covered: Eight realistic scenarios, four responses each: you judge which is MOST and which is LEAST effective. The focus: Beyond good intentions: disagreement protocols, escalation ladders and review rituals that make conflict resolution run by design, not by heroics.
Measuring Results & Consistency
Measuring Results & Consistency
Concepts covered: Eight realistic scenarios, four responses each: you judge which is MOST and which is LEAST effective. The focus: Evidence over intentions: tracking how disputes start, stall and settle, auditing your patterns and re-measuring to prove resolution is getting faster and cleaner.
Mastery & Long-Term Growth
Mastery & Long-Term Growth
Concepts covered: Eight realistic scenarios, four responses each: you judge which is MOST and which is LEAST effective. The focus: Resolution that outlasts you: coaching other mediators, modelling hard conversations publicly and setting a conflict culture the team keeps without you.
Reflective Journals & Skill Logging
Seven days of structured conflict logging plus eight written enquiries that go where rating scales cannot reach - the triggers, hesitations and repair stories behind your disagreement record.
style codes J01–J10
Foundations & Self-Awareness
Foundations & Self-Awareness
Concepts covered: A seven-day log plus eight written enquiries capture the evidence in your own words. The focus: Seeing your conflict record honestly: what you actually do when disagreement appears - push back, withdraw, rush to fix or smooth over - and where that default comes from.
Mindset & Attitudes
Mindset & Attitudes
Concepts covered: A seven-day log plus eight written enquiries capture the evidence in your own words. The focus: The beliefs behind the behaviour: examining what you assume disagreement means - threat, disrespect, opportunity - and how those assumptions decide your first move.
Core Skills & Techniques
Core Skills & Techniques
Concepts covered: A seven-day log plus eight written enquiries capture the evidence in your own words. The focus: The working moves of resolution: de-escalating in the moment, reframing positions into interests and landing hard messages without collateral damage.
Planning & Preparation
Planning & Preparation
Concepts covered: A seven-day log plus eight written enquiries capture the evidence in your own words. The focus: Before the hard conversation: preparing your opening line, your fallback, your exit and your composure so the talk does not depend on improvisation.
Everyday Application
Everyday Application
Concepts covered: A seven-day log plus eight written enquiries capture the evidence in your own words. The focus: Resolution in the ordinary: the small daily habits - early clarifications, quick acknowledgements, friction caught while it is still cheap - that stop drift becoming dispute.
Handling Challenges & Pressure
Handling Challenges & Pressure
Concepts covered: A seven-day log plus eight written enquiries capture the evidence in your own words. The focus: Holding your footing when it counts: high-heat moments, personal jabs and stonewalling counterparts - staying in the conversation without losing it.
Working with Others
Working with Others
Concepts covered: A seven-day log plus eight written enquiries capture the evidence in your own words. The focus: Mediating between people: brokering colleague disputes, running the difficult meeting and rebuilding working trust after a blow-up.
Tools, Systems & Continuous Improvement
Tools, Systems & Continuous Improvement
Concepts covered: A seven-day log plus eight written enquiries capture the evidence in your own words. The focus: Beyond good intentions: disagreement protocols, escalation ladders and review rituals that make conflict resolution run by design, not by heroics.
Measuring Results & Consistency
Measuring Results & Consistency
Concepts covered: A seven-day log plus eight written enquiries capture the evidence in your own words. The focus: Evidence over intentions: tracking how disputes start, stall and settle, auditing your patterns and re-measuring to prove resolution is getting faster and cleaner.
Mastery & Long-Term Growth
Mastery & Long-Term Growth
Concepts covered: A seven-day log plus eight written enquiries capture the evidence in your own words. The focus: Resolution that outlasts you: coaching other mediators, modelling hard conversations publicly and setting a conflict culture the team keeps without you.
360-Degree Multi-Rater Feedback
Twelve observable conflict behaviours rated by you and by the people who have seen you disagree - peers, manager, direct reports. The gaps between self-image and observed impact are the findings.
style codes F01–F10
Foundations & Self-Awareness
Foundations & Self-Awareness
Concepts covered: Twelve observable behaviours, rated by you and the people who work with you, expose the gaps. The focus: Seeing your conflict record honestly: what you actually do when disagreement appears - push back, withdraw, rush to fix or smooth over - and where that default comes from.
Mindset & Attitudes
Mindset & Attitudes
Concepts covered: Twelve observable behaviours, rated by you and the people who work with you, expose the gaps. The focus: The beliefs behind the behaviour: examining what you assume disagreement means - threat, disrespect, opportunity - and how those assumptions decide your first move.
Core Skills & Techniques
Core Skills & Techniques
Concepts covered: Twelve observable behaviours, rated by you and the people who work with you, expose the gaps. The focus: The working moves of resolution: de-escalating in the moment, reframing positions into interests and landing hard messages without collateral damage.
Planning & Preparation
Planning & Preparation
Concepts covered: Twelve observable behaviours, rated by you and the people who work with you, expose the gaps. The focus: Before the hard conversation: preparing your opening line, your fallback, your exit and your composure so the talk does not depend on improvisation.
Everyday Application
Everyday Application
Concepts covered: Twelve observable behaviours, rated by you and the people who work with you, expose the gaps. The focus: Resolution in the ordinary: the small daily habits - early clarifications, quick acknowledgements, friction caught while it is still cheap - that stop drift becoming dispute.
Handling Challenges & Pressure
Handling Challenges & Pressure
Concepts covered: Twelve observable behaviours, rated by you and the people who work with you, expose the gaps. The focus: Holding your footing when it counts: high-heat moments, personal jabs and stonewalling counterparts - staying in the conversation without losing it.
Working with Others
Working with Others
Concepts covered: Twelve observable behaviours, rated by you and the people who work with you, expose the gaps. The focus: Mediating between people: brokering colleague disputes, running the difficult meeting and rebuilding working trust after a blow-up.
Tools, Systems & Continuous Improvement
Tools, Systems & Continuous Improvement
Concepts covered: Twelve observable behaviours, rated by you and the people who work with you, expose the gaps. The focus: Beyond good intentions: disagreement protocols, escalation ladders and review rituals that make conflict resolution run by design, not by heroics.
Measuring Results & Consistency
Measuring Results & Consistency
Concepts covered: Twelve observable behaviours, rated by you and the people who work with you, expose the gaps. The focus: Evidence over intentions: tracking how disputes start, stall and settle, auditing your patterns and re-measuring to prove resolution is getting faster and cleaner.
Mastery & Long-Term Growth
Mastery & Long-Term Growth
Concepts covered: Twelve observable behaviours, rated by you and the people who work with you, expose the gaps. The focus: Resolution that outlasts you: coaching other mediators, modelling hard conversations publicly and setting a conflict culture the team keeps without you.
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Everything You Might Be Wondering
What exactly do I receive when I purchase?
The complete CONFL suite: 50 assessments organised into 5 methods, each delivered as an editable Word file, a clean print PDF and an interactive fillable PDF that scores itself — 153 files in total including the master file that holds every assessment in a single document.
Can I use these assessments with my own clients?
Yes. The suite is built for professional use: baseline clients, run workshops, structure feedback conversations and evidence progress across coaching engagements. Re-assessment every ninety days is the built-in rhythm that turns one-off tests into measurable development.
How does the self-scoring fillable PDF work?
Open the fillable edition in any modern PDF reader. Rate each item from the dropdown (1–5) and the document handles the arithmetic: competency totals, game points, SJT scoring grids and 360° averages update automatically as you select.
Do the five methods measure the same thing?
They measure the same ten development stages through five different lenses: rating scales give comparable baselines, games create engagement, judgment tests reveal decisions under pressure, journals document lived experience, and 360° feedback exposes the gap between self-image and observed impact.
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